Our favorite site for hooking up, SocialSexm, offers a guided tour by a stripping model.
xDating.com, on the other hand, offers a “safe mode” for when you’re (apparently) browsing the site in company.
Now, we don’t know about you guys, but if there’s one thing we’d kind of like privacy for, it’s sex-related stuff. That’s just part of being a guy. This site hilariously fails to see what its userbase wants and needs, and blocks all erotic advertisements, erotic videos, and even erotic messages.
In other words, this “handy” feature blocks everything you would actually go to xDating.com to see.
Xdating.Com Review: Why Xdating.Com Isn’t in Our “Best” List
xDating.com is a weirdly expensive site. They require a paid membership for absolutely everything they offer, from the videos to the chat functions. Unlike SocialSex, which offers a short trial membership for less than $2, you have to pay for a whole month’s membership to xDating.com right away before you sign up.
It’s a pretty expensive membership as well, which would be fine…if it were worth the money.
Needless to say, it isn’t. We didn’t like the process of having to sign up for the month right away at all. If you’re going to be using more than one dating site at the same time (check out our guide to using multiple dating sites to get awesome results), you’re going to want to try out the sites before you agree to buy a full month’s membership.
You don’t want to use this one at all.
Instead of buying a full month’s membership from Xdating.com, just look out your window. We guarantee that you’ll see more women in your area who are willing to sleep with you than you’ll find on Xdating.com.
The sorting algorithm on Xdating.com is really goddamn broken. The girls it spat out through the search feature were far away and didn’t really suit our tastes or filters anyway. It gave us a lot of matches that were way outside our age preferences, or that were located a few states away from our current locations.
Using Xdating.com to find a date is harder than it would be to find a date without the Internet. That’s really saying something.
Results From Xdating.Com: Why Xdating.Com Is Not Legit
We sent out 900 emails during our time on Xdating.com. That’s five guys, twice a day, for three months. Don’t ever tell us that we’re not thorough when we make an effort!
Of those 900 emails we sent, we got back a very impressive 19. Be honest, that’s a little bit impressive. We could have gotten more responses by writing 900 letters to supermodels. At least those would be full of pity instead of spam.
Unsurprisingly, none of those 19 replies resulted in a date. To be fair, after seeing what kinds of girls hang out on Xdating.com, we weren’t very enthusiastic about letting them get close to us, anyway.
There really aren’t any girls worth meeting on this site.
It’s kind of a nightmare. We struggled to find 900 different girls to email—and remember, that’s in five different LARGE cities, we weren’t trying to find 900 girls all in the same place at the same time. We wound up sending emails to girls that were really far away, and emails to girls that were well outside of our age range, just to have someone to email.
We didn’t need to bother.
We didn’t get any response, so what was the point of sending out emails? Basically if we hadn’t already paid for this website, we might have just thrown in the towel. Of course, that’s why they have you pay upfront. It’s not like our favorite site, SocialSex, where they offer a cheap trial because they know once you use it, you’ll be hooked and keep coming back for more of the same.
Why It’s Not Worth Signing Up For: Is Xdating.Com a Scam?
At this point, we almost have to congratulate Xdating.com. It’s not easy to be THAT broken a website, we’re pretty sure. Two of us are in the software and development industry, and assure the others that it’s kind of difficult to mess up a site that badly.
For our Xdating review, we were surprised to find that according to this site, there just aren’t any women. We couldn’t find any data—they don’t claim to have a userbase of any particular size.
That’s a bad sign.
For a really good website with a large userbase, you will almost always find an estimation of how many members they have. For example, AdultFriendFinder, one of our Top 5 websites, has over 40 million members. We know that because they’re proud of it. Pretty much any site that has over a million members advertises its numbers, and any in the hundreds of thousands usually advertises it.
The fact that Xdating.com doesn’t publicize its membership makes us think that there’s not much membership to publicize…though we didn’t need to think too hard about that, given how hard it was to set up a date on this website.
If you’re looking for girls that are legal but not old and in a major metropolitan area looking to hook up for the night, you shouldn’t have this much trouble. We had NO trouble with this on some of the sites in our Top 5, so we know it’s not about us.
Xdating.com will not get you laid. What more do you need to know?
Xdating.Com Review: Should You Try Xdating.Com For Hooking Up?
This is a bad site. It’s buggy, laggy, and useless for getting you any action whatsoever. You’d be better off going to a bar, and that’s saying something (we don’t spend much time in bars).
We’re big fans of using hookup sites to get laid. If all hookup sites were like Xdating.com, we’d have thrown our computers out the window a long time ago and just gone on a walk, yelling that we were horny and ready to hook up. It would be about as effective.