You may think that picking up a girl at a bar is hard to do, especially if you have ever tried to do it before and failed miserably. It doesn’t have to be complicated, though, and you can make it happen. The next time you see a hot girl at a bar, think about these simple tips.
Buy Her A Drink
You can either send a waitress over to give her a drink of her choice, or you can man up and walk up to her and ask her if she’d like one. If you want to ask her yourself, but aren’t sure how to make that happen, you could always wait until the bartender is at her end of the bar and meander over like you need a drink. Most times the bartender will ask you what you’re drinking first and that’s when you tell him your order and say “and whatever the lady wants.” If she isn’t sitting at the bar this may be harder to do, so you may have to fall back on the waitress to help you.
Don’t Linger After You Say Hello
If you have managed to go and tell her hello, do not linger after you have done it or bought her a drink. It’s creepy and she may feel obligated to talk to you, even if she has no interest in you. If she wants to talk after your first encounter with her, she will come to you or send the waitress or a friend over to you. If she doesn’t seek you out, turn your attention elsewhere. Besides, once she sees you aren’t hanging on her every word and creepily gazing at her she may be more inclined to get to know you.
Talk To Her Friends
If she is with friends, talk to them. There is no better way to get an “in” with a girl than a great recommendation from her friends. If they like you, and you like her, they can help facilitate a hookup with the two of you. This does not mean you should ignore her and talk only to her friends, though or she may get the impression you don’t like her. If she is not with friends, you can sit near her and chat with the waitress, the bartender, or other people at the bar so that she doesn’t feel the brunt of your attention all on her. When she’s comfortable with you she will talk to you more.