If your intention is to have a fling with a woman and you are taking her out on a date for the first time you will want to determine what her intentions are. You think she’s nice, funny, and hot and you are ready to ask her about being a casual thing, but you don’t know how she will take it. The conversation you’ve had with her until this point will tell you what she wants from you even if she doesn’t come right out and say it.
She Keeps Talking About Relationships
Her parents have been married for 20 years. Her sister is getting married. Her best friend just started dating a great guy. Everyone she knows is in a relationship except her. She had a long-term boyfriend, but that didn’t last after he cheated and she just wants to find a good guy and be happy. She may not have come right and said that last part, but if anything she has said gave you that impression then she doesn’t want to be your casual “Girl Friday.” More like she wants to be your one and only right now.
She Won’t Talk About Sex At All
If you have talked about sex in anyway, made a joke about it, alluded to it and she ignores it or skips right over it, she is not thinking about a sexual relationship with you. She is thinking you are crude, possibly, but she isn’t thinking she wants to crawl into bed with you. If that’s what you are thinking about and the two of you can’t seem to sync up, it’s time to stop thinking she will want what you want out of this date or relationship.
She Talks About All Of Her Exes
She isn’t serious about you or what you may be wanting from her if she keeps bringing up her exes. She isn’t over them, or isn’t over the idea of a relationship. Either way, she can’t think beyond what happened to her in the past and she may be trying to fix it with you, but not in a sexual way. Women who cling to exes have an emotional void they need filled, and sex isn’t going to cut it with this one.
She Mentions Future Dates With Her Often
You haven’t even made it through dinner and she’s already talking about seeing you on Friday and taking you to meet her friends. While this may not mean she isn’t in for sex, it means she isn’t in for a casual relationship. She wants to see you again, and she wants to keep seeing you. This is her way of telling you she likes you and she likes the idea of being your girlfriend.