If a person starts to develop feelings for the other person in a casual relationships, they often get hurt. If you’re afraid of that happening in your relationship, make it clear from the beginning that you want nothing more than a hook-up. If you want a sexual relationship, let your partner know it in the beginning. As long as the person knows what you’re willing to commit before the relationship starts, you should be fine. You have to be certain you’re absolutely clear with them.
Tell The Person How You Feel
To make sure there is no confusion, be blunt about your feelings. Tell the woman you want to have a casual relationship with that you are only interested in a sexual relationship with her and nothing more. Let her know that you have thought this through and you will not be changing your mind. This will give her the chance to decide if that’s the type of relationship she can have with you, and allow her to discuss that with you. If she tells you she is looking for more, respect that decision.
Don’t Get Overly Romantic
It’s human nature to want to be romantic with someone once you’ve been physically intimate with them. You may find yourself wanting to buy her flowers, or send her a sweet text message, but you shouldn’t. This feeling is from endorphins that are released during sex, and not actual emotions. Avoid doing those sweet things unless you are ready for a relationship with this woman.
Though, you can be nice to her. You don’t have to be rude to prove your point that this relationship is only about sex. If you are too rude to her you may lose any relationship with her.
Don’t Get Overly Involved
When you’re with her, don’t ask too many questions about her personal life, and don’t share too many details about yours. This will make her think you’re interested in her in more ways than just a casual sexual relationship, and she may start getting attached to you. Keep the conversation to things like her job, her cats, and her friends, but don’t ask about her exes or her family. These topics are too personal for a hook-up relationship. This does not mean you can’t have fun with her, but there are plenty of things you two can discuss when you’re together. Treat her like a friend, and not an escort.
Keep Things Casual When You’re Together
Don’t get too overboard with emotion and don’t spend large amounts of money on her, unless that’s your arrangement. It may be easy for you to want to do those things, but when you do she’ll continue to expect them. Also, don’t go out with her too much. If you start spending a lot of time with her she is going to think you’re developing feelings for her.