Making a woman orgasm is a daunting task for many men, especially if you are having sex with a woman for the first time. You don’t want to let her down, but you may not know just what to do to make her climax for you. Taking things slow and listening to what her body is telling you will help you figure out what she needs you to do to make her orgasm.
Read Her Body Language
Women will tell you what they want from you, even if you can’t hear a word from them. Body language is very powerful and if you know how to listen to a woman’s body she will tell you all you need to know about pleasing her. When she arches her back just a bit when you touch her thigh, that’s her way of telling you she likes the feeling of your hands there. When she sighs when you lightly nibble her neck, she’s telling you she’s being seduced by you. Listen to what she’s saying without making her say a word.
Foreplay Isn’t A Suggestion–It’s A Necessity
For a woman, foreplay can be just as good as sex if her partner does it right. When you seduce a woman, start by doing it without even touching her. Compliment her, make her feel special, and turn her on with your words. When you touch her, kiss her passionately and make her feel special. When you undress her, do it slowly and show her that you enjoy every inch of her body. When she feels enjoyed by you, she will feel enticed by you. Foreplay will have her ready to explode long before intercourse occurs.
Oral Sex Doesn’t Start And Stop Between The Legs
Oral sex is not something you do to a woman’s vagina or something she does to your penis. This is something that you do with your mouth all over her body. Kissing her lips, her neck, her ears, her breasts, and anywhere else is called oral sex because it is pleasing her with your mouth. Take your time and seduce her whole body with your tongue so that by the time you make it between her thighs she’s already at climax for you. After she orgasms, go back to kissing her body. This will get her ready for another orgasm during intercourse.
Seducing a woman the right way, getting her turned on with foreplay, pleasing her orally, and taking your time with her will ensure that she orgasms for you every time the two of you hook-up. And the more you can make her orgasm the more she will want to hook up with you.