Bad hook-up and one night stand sex happens to everyone at some point in life, but you don’t have to settle for mediocre sex. You can turn the tides on your bad hook-up and make it a night that will not be soon forgotten by both of you. With just a bit of effort, you can have your casual fling screaming in ecstasy and ready to return the favor.
Take Time To Seduce Her
Hook-ups don’t always have to be rushed and frenzied. You can take the time to seduce your woman, and it really doesn’t even have to take a whole lot of time. If the two of you were out to dinner before the sex occurred, you should have already been seducing her with your words and actions before you made it to the bedroom. If the turn of events was quick and you didn’t have time to seduce her properly, do it in the bedroom as you undress her. Kiss her ears and neck, and take the time to enjoy how her body looks and feels before moving forward. Even if the pause is short, she’ll take note and enjoy the attentions.
Oral Sex Is A Must
For some reason, many people avoid oral sex on the first date. This may be because it can be intimate, or because they just don’t feel that they know the person well enough. Whatever the issue may be, oral sex on a hook-up should most definitely be something you do to your lady friend if you want her to return the favor. Once she sees that you aren’t shy about pleasing her orally, she will be happy to please you in the same manner.
One of the hottest things to do during sex is to talk dirty to a woman. Tell her what you think about her, and ask her if she has any fantasies she’d like to live out with you. The talking may get her so hot and aroused that she will try to live out those fantasies. Tell her a casual fling is the perfect time to go wild and let loose, and let her know that you want to go wild with her. Once she feels comfortable that you are on the same page, she will let her inner seductress out.
Ask her if you can take pictures of her. Tell her you want to remember this night forever and watch her come alive in front of the camera. Once she feels sexy she will let loose for you.