You may think meeting a girl at a bar and going home with her for a casual encounter is out of your pick-up skills, but you just need to know the right things to do. There are ways to get that hot young thing to notice you and want to go home with you for a night of fun. Knowing what to look for in a woman, and
how to act, will get you laid every time.
Find The Right Woman
Not every woman in a bar is there because she wants to have a casual hook up with a man, but there are still women who go to bars for that particular reason alone. The woman who want a man to ask her home for a one-night stand will have certain looks. She will generally be alone and drinking at the bar. She will wear something casual, but sexy. Her hair and makeup will look nice and she won’t be over done. This is the woman who knows that she wants sex and not a relationship, so she’s playing it calm and cool to see if a man will approach her.
Approaching Her The Right Way
You can’t just go up to this woman and ask her home. First you must make her notice you. Say hi and make a joke. If humor isn’t your strong point, compliment her eyes, blouse, or jewelry. Make sure the compliment is sincere, or else you will seem to be a jerk. After she begins talking to you, ask to buy her a drink and make sure she wants you to stay around. If you just assume she wants your company she may think you’re arrogant.
Turn Her On
It isn’t hard to turn on a woman who wants to be turned on. The best way to get her to be interested in you is for you to be interested in her. Remember, this isn’t about a relationship, so don’t delve into anything too personal. Keep things light and ask questions about her that aren’t too committed. Ask her about her job, her day, and why she likes to drink whiskey. She will get the hint that you want to know about her without getting too involved.
Seal The Deal
At the end of the night, ask her if she has plans. It’s really that simple. She’ll either say yes or no, but if you have played all your cards right, she might herself ask you to go home with her, before you ask her.