You may have been told that hooking up with your sister’s friends is a no-no, but if you and her friend are both consenting adults, there’s no reason why you can’t have fun if you do things the right way. Follow a few simple rules to keep everyone happy, and you can have fun with any adult woman you like.
Don’t kiss and tell. Just because you got to make out and have sex with one of your sister’s hot friends, doesn’t mean you need to run and tell every single one of your guy friends. We know you talk, and we know when you’ve talked, and to whom and about what. So if you ever want to hook up with your sister’s hot friend again, tell your friends that she’ll never meet.
That says it all: Be discreet. Don’t immediately go and tell everyone you know who you hooked up with, and if your sister isn’t supposed to know, be even more discreet. If your sister finds out and she wasn’t supposed to, and you still live in the same house as her, prepare for warfare.
Be Honest With Her About What You Want From The Hook-Up
If you’re looking for just a friend with benefits, tell her so. Don’t make her think that she’s the only girl you want, or that you’re looking for girlfriend material. Guys get so hung up on thinking that girls always want a commitment after sex. Not true, fellas. Some girls just want a booty call from time to time. Maybe you do something in a certain way no one else does, but that doesn’t mean she wants a ring and a four bedroom apartment. Be honest and upfront from the starting, so that both of you know what your expectations are from each other.
Don’t Lie To Your Sister If You Get Caught
Uh oh! You’ve been caught with your hand in the proverbial cookie jar. Now what? Don’t lie to your sister and tell her it was just a one time thing. Be as honest with your sister about what you two are doing as you were with her friend when you both laid your expectations down before engaging in consensual sexual activity. If your sister catches you and you lie, and she finds out, there will be worse repercussions than if you had just told her the truth that you’re both adults and want nothing more than a physical relationship. Honesty is always the best policy. She may be steamed at you for sleeping with one of her friends at first, and she may even be mad at her friend for not telling her, but eventually she’ll get over it and possibly even accept it. Be careful if she accepts it though, she may decide you two are perfect for each other.