Powerful women are sexy and they generally tend to be sexual as well. Women who have achieved status in life are usually more open about their sex lives, and open to trying new things. For this reason, plus the way they can challenge you, you may be considering dating a powerful woman. But do you know how to make one notice you?
Don’t Seem Desperate Or Lovestruck
Powerful women are confident women, and while they want to know that you need them in some fashion, they don’t want to feel as if you need them all the time. If you happen to meet a woman in a position of power, don’t seem overly impressed with her and keep it cool. If you get lucky enough to go out with her, don’t turn into a lovestruck puppy dog. For example, calling her a few times just to say hello or to see how her day is going could be seen as cute at first but it gets old and desperate fast. You’ll soon find your calls being forwarded straight to voicemail and dates being canceled. Women love confidence in men, especially when the woman herself is also confident. Don’t get clingy- it’s unattractive and annoying.
Seem Equally Powerful
If your prospective woman is in a position of power, (i.e, boss, supervisor, CEO, VP, exec etc) she’s used to people doing what she asks them to do, when she asks them. Challenge her slightly, if she calls you and says to meet her somewhere at a specific time, tell her that you are unavailable at that time but you can meet at another pre-arranged time. If she agrees, she’s flexible. If she says no and gives you another place and time, tell her you’ll get back to her. Then actually get back to her and either agree, or set up another time. Don’t just automatically jump when she says to meet. Regardless of what you may have been told, not all women like to be told ‘Yes, dear, right away dear!” when they ask for something. Relationships are give and take, not master and servant… Unless, you’re into that sort of lifestyle!
Play With Her Mind, Not Her Heart
Women in positions of power got there because they are smart and are not emotional. To treat them like little school girls looking for Mr. Right to come along and sweep them off their feet is insulting. Don’t buy her flowers and talk about marriage and kids. If you really want to impress her, buy her tickets to a great art show and talk about politics. She’ll be happy to know that you noticed her mind and not her body.
Women in positions of power are a huge turn on for men, and it’s easy to see why. They are confident, in control, and intelligent. If you also have these three things, show them when approaching a powerful woman to ask for a date. Women like men with confidence, so if you want a “woman” and not a “girl,” you should be that type of “man” and not a “boy.”