There are a lot of typical first date venues that everyone visits frequently, but if you are looking to do something different to hopefully impress a girl you want to hook up with, go for a different venue. Sure, restaurants and movies are nice, but they are overdone and they also don’t lend themselves well to allowing you to really get to know your date. Check out these places instead and see how quickly your date can turn into a night of fun.
A café is quieter than most restaurants, and it also comes with the added bonus of being cheaper. Ask your date to meet you at the cool, hidden café you discovered in your college days and entertain her with stories of your glory days spent there with friends. It’s a great conversation starter, it lets her learn more about you, plus she will be intrigued that you felt so open to sharing with her.
If you are a competitive person, and she also seems to be somewhat similar, have fun playing with each other on the put-put green. This can be a great way to break the ice, even if you don’t really like golf. The two of you can laugh at each other’s mess-ups and have fun trying your hand at the game. Want to really spice it up? Make a wager that the winner gets something fun at the end of the night, like a foot massage or neck rub. No matter who the winner ends up being, you both get to be physical and closer together at the end of the night.
A park is a fun way to be romantic without being pushy. Invite your date out for a picnic and set the stage with a nice blanket and a flower in a vase. You don’t have to cook because you can have the event catered and sit back and enjoy the evening with her. There is nothing more calming and peaceful than a picnic and she will appreciate the effort you put into it.
Showing off your love of art and history can be a good idea if your date likes the same. Chances are, if you are going out she probably does. This is a great place to get to know one another intellectually and learn new things at the same time. It’s a date with the added perk of expanding your knowledge and she will appreciate that you enjoy that sort of thing. Follow it up with coffee at that cute little café.
Restaurants, movies, and bars are ok for first dates, but if you need a date venue that is more than just ‘okay,’ think out of the box and take your lady to a place that allows you to actually get to know one another better. Quieter, more relaxed venues where you can talk are ideal, especially if you want her to feel comfortable enough around you for a late night hook-up.