Having fantasies about older women is nothing new, and men do it all the time. If you find yourself ready to fulfill those fantasies but have no idea how, take a look at these tips that can help you bed the cougar of your dreams.
Older women are confident because they have had life experiences and they are secure. They have probably raised children, had husbands, and are established in their careers. In other words: they don’t need anymore babies to raise, men to take care of, or issues on their plate and if you seem like you will fall into one of these categories, you will not be getting with your hottie.
Just like young women, middle-aged women, tall women, short women, and every other woman in the world like funny men. Men with a sense of humor get laid more often because they make women feel comfortable and laughter is an aphrodisiac. This doesn’t mean you should commit to a whole comedy routine to turn her on, but you can get her attention by telling a few subtle jokes or even just with a natural sense of humor.
Another way to get her attention is to not seek it. If she thinks you are pursuing her, she may put up a chase for you. This is fine if you want that excitement, but if you want her and no games, you need to be the one to be pursued. You can’t do that if you are hanging on her every word and following her about. Remember that confidence thing? It applies here. Talk to her, be polite, but don’t act as if you are turned on by her. She’ll want to make you turned on and will go out of her to do so.
Don’t Talk About Money
She doesn’t care if you have money or not. Chances are, she has her own. If she wanted money, there are men in her age group who would be willing to marry her and give it to her. Money is not a subject that is suitable for turning a woman on, especially not for turning on a hot older woman. Leave the finances out of it or you may find yourself short-changed.
Don’t Mention Her Age
A lot of younger men think it is pertinent to tell an older woman that they like older women. It does nothing but turn her off. Women don’t like being reminded about their age, and they don’t like knowing that you see them as such. Leave her age out if it, even if you think it is a compliment to her.