One of the appeals of having casual encounters is that you don’t get bored because you get to experience sex with new people often. The truth is, though, that if you are doing the same old things over and over again, sex can get boring even with new partners. Spice things up a bit. Adding a touch of naughtiness to your next hook-up just got a little easier with a few simple tips that just about anyone, whether they are beginners or experts at the hook-up game, can apply to their next fling.
If you haven’t done oral sex, do it at your next encounter. If you have done It before, do it differently. There are many tips, tricks, and techniques that can help you satisfy a woman, but the best way to make sure oral sex is pleasurable for both of you is for you to find what you enjoy doing. Learn the tips and tricks, but only do what you’re comfortable doing. If she isn’t comfortable with oral sex, you can still seduce her by caressing the rest of her body with your mouth.
Adult toys can be a great way to add some fun to your sex life. Don’t use the same vibrator or dildo for different women, but you can use the same restraints and blindfolds. Get her used to the idea of the toy by letting her play with it and show you what she wants to do with it, then you can take over, if she lets you! Bring a variety of things along so that the two of you can decide what toys you want to use with one another.
Role playing can be exciting, especially if this is your first time with a new woman and you don’t know much about her that could interrupt the fantasy. If you meet a woman online and she wants to have casual sex, ask her to role play before you even meet so that the game can start from the moment you are in each other’s company. That will make it more authentic and exciting for the both of you and it will allow anticipation to build around the fantasy before you see one another.
Invite A Friend
If you and someone you sleep with occasionally have talked about the possibility of a threesome, invite a friend along. Just be sure to tell the person you’re meeting that someone will be joining you for a fun filled night, and make sure the person participating with the two of you knows that this is all a casual hook-up and nothing more. As long as all parties involved are informed of what’s going on there should be no confusion or hard feelings.
Spicing up your already steamy casual encounters can be as simple as adding in a few adult toys, or scandalous as inviting someone in for a threesome. The great thing about having such a casual sexual lifestyle is that you are free to explore with many different people and you’re never bored.