Sexting is the modern way of flirting over the phone and it has got lots of people in trouble. Congressman to teenagers have found themselves in hot water with the media and even the law with sexting. If you are an adult male and casually dating a hot young lady you may be considering sexting her to keep things exciting in your relationship. If this is the case, follow a few simple rules to keep yourself out of trouble.
Make Sure It’s Ok
First you should make sure your lady is ok with getting a sext from you. Imagine how embarrassing it would be to send her a naked photo only to have her reject you. Ask her if she’s ok with sexting and then set up rules about it so that you both know where the other stands on any issue.
Don’t Send Pictures Without Warning
Never send a picture without telling her it’s coming. She may not have her phone with her, or she may have been allowing her mom to use it. When you send naughty photos without warning you are asking for embarrassment on both ends. You can send a simple text asking “ok to send NSFW” (not safe for work) and if she doesn’t respond or says no, hold your horses, until she’s in a spot where she can enjoy the sext you send her.
Keep It Clean During The Day
If you are at work and trying to send a sext to your hottie, you could find yourself more than embarrassed, as you may end up getting fired if anyone in the workplace reads the sext over your shoulder. In the past, some companies have even considered doing this type of thing while on the clock, as a form of sexual harassment or indecency in the workplace. That’s definitely not something you want on your record. If you must sext her right away, or look at a sext she has sent you, go to your car, take an early lunch or go to the bathroom to sext, while at work.
Don’t Share Your Texts
Do not share any of the sexts she sends to you or you to her. You may trust her, she may trust you, but can you trust your best friend? It only takes sharing a sext with the wrong person once for it to get out and completely embarrass you. Not only that, but if she knows you’ve shared these things that could be the end of your sexting or even the end of your relationship with her.
The only other rule that would apply to them would be to make sure you can trust the woman you are sexting. Is she in a position of power or does she have something to gain if you were to be exposed? If you aren’t sure you can trust her fully with the sexts, don’t do it. It could definitely spell out a world of embarrassment for you and it might ruin you.