You may be worried that when you hook-up with a girl she will end up overstaying her welcome the next morning, but what if you are the one that wears out your morning after hospitality? There are ways you can leave the home of your one-night stand without seeming rude or too involved.
Thank Her For a great Evening And Leave
The fastest way to get out the door is to tell her that you have to go somewhere, thank her for the lovely evening, and promptly make your exit. This may seem rude to some women, but more often than not the woman you had a fling with, will be happy to see you go, especially if your sexual encounter had anything to do with alcohol.
Invite Her For Coffee Or Lunch Later
If you think you like the girl but you don’t want to seem too eager, casually ask her for coffee or lunch later that day or week. If she seems hesitant, tell her to check her schedule and get back to you. This means she probably wants to say no but doesn’t want to seem like she’s rude.
If she says yes, don’t seem too excited and tell her that you’ll call her later to set up a time. This is now when you can say you have places to be, things to do, and important errands to run so you have to leave right away. Now when you’ve got out of your home, you should still look polite enough so that you can have another chance with her.
Ask To Take A Shower And Then Get A Call
If getting out the door without seeming rude doesn’t seem possible, and you don’t want to see her again, ask to use her shower. Make the shower a quick one and text a friend to call you and pretend there is an emergency. Tell your fling that you have to get a friend out of jail, or that your sister’s car broke down and you need to go help her. If she gets upset at any of these things, she now looks desperate and rude.
Bang and Bounce
The old bang and bounce is still tried and true. Once she falls asleep, quietly get dressed and get out of her house before she wakes up to know that you’re gone. This only works well with women who don’t have your telephone number. If you try this with a woman who can reach you by phone, you will never hear the end of her anger.