Picture this: you’ve walked into a party with friends and there is a beautiful woman directly in front of you. As you get closer you realize that she’s your ex-girlfriend and she’s looking better than ever. Suddenly, you remember the way she laughed, the way she smelled, how amazing she was in bed and now you want her. You want to have sex with her and relive those times again. Though, this may not be such a good idea.
She May Want More
If she is feeling attracted to you, she may want more than just a casual encounter. More often, women don’t revert back to their exes, and not just for casual sex. There’s something about the comfort of familiarity, women have with their exes that makes them want to go back to men they have previously dated. If she’s feeling this way, there’s no way that your relationship can be casual.
You May Want More
There Could Be Residual Feelings
These emotions could actually be residual feelings that are left there from the relationship the two of you had together. Friends with benefits never works out if any feelings exist between the two of you because someone will always become jealous and get hurt. Discuss any emotions you may have for her, and let her tell of any she may have. If you decide they’re no big deal, proceed with caution. Tiny feelings have a way of growing quickly when sex is involved.
Leave The Past Alone
When someone becomes an ex, it’s usually for a good reason. If you try to relive the past, you’ll find yourself recalling that reason faster than you may care to recall, and that can harm any sexual encounters you may have. If there are unresolved issues in your relationship, leave them in the past where they belong. If you can’t seem to do that, leave her in the past and move on. This will not turn out to be just a casual ordeal if you can’t let go of your old relationship.
Depending on how you and your ex parted ways, having casual sex with her may not be the best idea. Too often there are unresolved issues that only complicate casual sexual encounters with exes. If you feel there are no issues, then this can be a fun way to relive the old days, but if you find yourself remembering negative things about her before you even get to the bedroom, walk away and leave it alone, before one of you gets hurt.